Anxiety
comes from negative, irrational, and basically future-oriented
kind of thoughts. If your brain is often loaded with anxious thoughts that you
can’t help avoid, then you are struggling with anxiety. You know those thoughts
that are based on "what if" and "oh my gosh!" that sometimes go out of hand so easily and bring in even deeper thoughts of anxiety.Once anxiety
associated thoughts stick in your head,
they can easily become over-powering, confusing
or upsetting. Such thoughts can lead into
thinking that you are the only one in such a mess but know that you aren’t the
only lone anxious person who has
encountered such an experience at some point.
In
reality, troubling thoughts are born of anxiety. According to psychologist
Dr. Nikki Martinez, people in an intensified state of anxiety, are more vulnerable to negative and unfair intrusive
thoughts. Chances are such a state will become even more chronic with the lack
of ample mechanisms to control or curtail
it.In the absence of such mechanisms,
those thoughts can be quite overwhelming and stressful to handle, hence resulting
in the worst form of anxiety. Seeing a therapist can be of significant help
since they will definitely suggest the
coping skills or whatever healthy measure
you need to relief your brain from. Take
a look at these Common anxiety thoughts you might notice that you have and remember
that other anxious people have them too.
1. "I Definitely Have That Rare Disease"
Anxiety
has all it takes to stick your brain on the weird thought that you have every
rare disease that mankind is worried about. In such a state, if at any moment you
feel some pain or even a little headache, your brain switches straight to the irresistible thought that you are a victim of
that disease and it has begun eating you up. In the contemporary world, your
first source of research would be on Google as you try to find out if your
thoughts are true and how long you have left to live. Having such detrimental
junk in your brain is not cool at all.
2. "The Subway Train Is Stuck, I’m
Going To Live Down Here Forever"
If
for some rare reason the subway train you are in shows some signs of a
breakdown or grinds to a halt, then your brain will send strong waves of panic
and initiate adrenaline rush as a result. The issue here is a high degree of
lack of control that anxiety generates in everyone suffering from anxiety and
it’s a condition they can’t just control.
3. "Did I Leave The Door
Unlocked?"
There’s
a specific type of condition referred to as Obsessive Compulsive Disorder which
is that anxiety disorder known as "checking disease.". According to
HealthGuides.org, such is what makes some people feel bound to double check
switches, doors, a wallet or purse. It
may appear easy to deal with, but in reality,
it is such a difficult disorder to handle
on a daily bases. In fact, at times you
may even see yourself rushing back home from work to triple check either yourlocks or something else in the name of “just
in case.”
4. "My Friend Hasn't Replied,
Perhaps She's Possibly Mad"
The
anxiety about whether you hurt your loved one in some way and they are upset
with you keeps coming in the event of them not calling or texting. That one is
quite a common thought stuck in the
brains of anxious people as Lindsay Holmes, Deputy Healthy Living Editor on
HuffingtonPost.com specifies. Also, this occurs in a scenario in which your
friend fails to continue with plans you both had and your feeling switches to
the fear of the worst, assuming they are upset with you.
5. "My SO Has Never Called Nor
Texted, So I'm Probably Dumped"
Thoughts
of this nature are common in relationships. It’s most often a delayed text that
you need just a little patience to wait for.
That’s one of the cases that make anxious people have a little too many sad and
tension-risen moments in relationships. If two of you with such anxiety
thoughts are in a relationship, the need for a therapist to help will be
urgent.
6. "I Suck At Work And Am Going To
Be Fired"
Praise
an anxious person now with the most appreciative of words and they will forget
it and remember only that little negative thing you said. They ’re more or less the worst critique of
themselves,and that’s what you really don’t want to be. The workplace
is a perfect example of where all these usually happens. Your anxiety is surely
the reason you constantly feel like you will so be
fired.
7. "I'm Going To Forget"
The
fear of forgetting to do important duties or normal
daily assignments is another characteristic that anxious people feel troubled by. As time approaches towards a particular task, you
may start developing the fear of forgetting to do or say some of the things in
your duty. For example, you fear missing
a meeting, going late to a function, forgetting a point in an important
discussion, not feeding your cat and so on. It’s about being overly anxious to
trust yourself.
8. "Something Horrible Is Waiting
To Happen To My Dog"
Having
a pet to take care of is not easy and doing so as someone overwhelmed with
troubling thoughts of anxiety is a harder combination to handle. It can result
innumerous disturbing thoughts that will
lead to even more worries since daily life thoughts
of harm and death are not new to people living with anxiety;reveals the health
site Calm Clinic.com.
9. "People Are Going To Notice That
I'm Stupid"
Anxious
people usually have trouble feeling relaxed and confident in the midst of
friends or strangers. Take an anxious person out to socialize, have fun, and
they will keep nursing anxious thoughts about how people will think that they are stupid, unfit or poor at
something they ought to be good at. Are
you this way? The thought that your contribution in a discussion is not
important is another issue,and that’s
where the tendency to rush through your idea when during a group discussion
keeps sticking in your mind.
10. "Nobody Likes Me"
When
it comes to how people react to an anxious person’s views, posts or photos on
Facebook, it becomes a very sensitive
issue. When their posts are not responded
to as it is normally happening to posts of others, they interpret it as being
particularly snubbed by those you have seen it,and
they immediately interpret it as “nobody likes me.” Anybody who experiences these abnormal thoughts about not being loved should be aware that they are into some
anxiety-fueled paranoia
Note
that thoughts that are negative and irrational cause anxiety. To resist the
urge to accommodate anxious thoughts or anxiety itself, you must learn to
challenge all those negative and irrational thoughts that force themselves into
your brain. Consult a therapist and be offered techniques in Cognitive
Behavioral Therapy which is a way of learning how to change your thought
patterns. With coping mechanisms, you can shut down those anxious thoughts and
free yourself from the trouble of living a stressful life every day.
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